Tuesday, May 19, 2015

on the Amtrak crash

  As I'm writing this post the dust is settling on the horrific Amtrak crash that sadly killed seven near Philadelphia last week. Lives being claimed by, families torn apart, and futures cut short all embodied the horrific accident on the Amtrak just last night. As we dive into these ideas and thoughts I want to make one thing extremely clear. Horrible, gruesome accidents wherever they and whatever they involve have one thing in common: all of them affect human beings in major ways. Let's dive into some ideas and thoughts about the horrific Amtrak crash.

1) The Amtrak crash shows us in real, profound ways that life isn't fair.
  Fairness is often the yard stick that we use to measure a lot in our life. It starts when we're young, "No, Brian you cannot have a cookie before dinner." My response would often be, "That's not fair." My response was often subtly cloaked with the inference behind my tone, I want it! Whether it be a cookie, A on a test, raise at work, invitation to an important event, and the list can go on and on we often pull out our fair card when we don't receive the things we want. I do find it funny and this is just a thought for you to chew on, but we hardly ever claim, "That's not fair," when we receive something unexpected that we didn't deserve. As I'm writing this I can't recall one Christmas that I handed any of my presents to my parents or grandparents and said, "It's not fair that I got this beautiful new toy take it back."

  In looking at the horrific situation that took place last night, the only conclusion that one can draw is that it is not fair why normal, ordinary people who boarded an Amtrak last week and now people are crowding churches and funeral homes to say good-bye. Answers aren't always forth coming in these tough situations. Maybe it was poor driving? Maybe it was a failure to execute in the construction of the track or vehicle? I don't know. But, one thing I do know is that few answers will bring peace. Life isn't fair in many ways, Jesus promised that he was going to prepare a place for us in his father's house (John 14:2), but we have no idea of knowing when we finally arrive at this beautiful mansion. Be thankful every minute that you're on this earth, but know your future is in God's hands alone.

2) Learn how to have a presence in life's uncomfortable moments.

  Unexpected is one of the toughest moments people have to endure during their earthly journey. Heart attacks, car accidents, brain aneurysms, strokes, accidents at work, and so on all sadly claim people way too soon. Unbearable sadness almost always grips those who experience the loss, and for us who aren't family or extremely close friends to the deceased we can't fathom the pain they're in. Since we can't relate we often find it difficult to muster up the words to say, and for many of us that means we stay away. Because we don't offend or hurt the person(s) dealing with loss more than they already are hurt.

  I will admit our intentions are often noble, but what people really need is someone that will listen to them, cry with them, and let them know they have a good friend in the midst of some very dark days. Learn how to be comfortable in the midst of situations that have few answers. But, most importantly learn how to point people to the God who has ALL the answers.

Friday, May 8, 2015

on Poverty

  As the chaos of the Baltimore riots settles down and as William and Kate and the rest of the world continue to gush over Baby Charlotte we are reminded once again that this world is not fair. Some are born into a life of servants and trust funds while others into poverty. Some young people are given every opportunity while others it seems are just victims of a never ending cycle of poverty. Here are a few thoughts on poverty as well as a challenge to give and give generously.

1) The poor matter a whole to Jesus.
  As I write this I sincerely hope that this can be a renewed mindset for you going forward. My prayer is that your heart wouldn't become calloused but rather become broken by those who don't have enough. Jesus proclaimed in Luke 4:18 that he was anointed to proclaim Good News to the poor.  In Luke 14:13 he encourages that those who are throwing a banquet to invite the poor and oppressed. In Luke 11:21 he reminds the disciples and his followers, "To be generous to the poor and all will be made clean for you."  Jesus' kindness even inspired Zaccheus to give generously back to the poor!
  In my opinion this is the heart of the gospel, lifting up those who are struggling. The struggles can range from physical, to emotional, to social, and for many people they are financial. Jesus' desire is that everyone would be a lifted up from their struggles, from their pain, and from not having enough. The craziest part of all is that he almost always uses human beings to do it. Christ's example inspired the early church to share everything and give to those who were in need (Acts 2:45). Peter and John were inspired to heal a blind beggar near the the temple gates (Acts 3:1-9). The list can go on and on, but one thing is clear if the poor mattered to Jesus they should matter to us as well, because Jesus did promise to us that he would be going away, but the poor would always be with us.
2) Learn to give generously.
  We aren't going to to have a long post today, because poverty is a complex issue. I will be the first to admit, I don't understand nearly many of the facets about poverty. But, I do know that God is good, and one day God will make all things right.
  Many of you reading this post might say, I don't have nearly enough money to pay all of my bills, my family has five mouths to feed, or we have extensive debt how can I/we give to help those who are poor? That is a great question, and I do want to assure you that in no way should you give to the point where your family suffers and has serious consequences. But, I do want you to ask yourselves do we as a family/individual need to visit Starbucks twice a week? Do we need four televisions in the house when we honestly can only really watch one at a time? Does every single person in our family need an Iphone? I think when we start to address poverty in our society by looking at our abundance and excess that clarifies things very clearly where our priorities.
  The poor will always be here. They are in need of things other than money. This summer weed out clothes you don't wear anymore and donate to a local shelter. Clean out your storage garage with furniture that you haven't sat on for years and donate it to your local salvation army. Offer to become a part of a local tutoring group that helps underprivileged students raise test scores. The list can go on and on. The poor matter to Jesus greatly, and likewise they should matter to us as well.