On the Family Part 2

  Jesus tells us something very troubling in Luke 14, He tells His followers that whoever doesn't hate their mother and father cannot be his disciple. The troubling thought from all of this is Jesus telling us that we need to hate our parents to be a disciple? Do we need to despise and reject those who are closest to us? Well, let's I will say this is one of the most complicated and difficult things that Jesus said to His disciples. However, I will say this in life we often rank/prioritize what we believe to be most important in our lives. Some of us do this consciously other of us do this rather unconsciously. But, regardless how we prioritize the things and people in our lives happens pretty much all the same way. Where we spend our time, our money, who we talk about, what we think about, and where we place our hopes and dreams will show people what we view as most important.

  I don't think there is one clear cut answer as to what Jesus is trying to communicate with us in these verses in Luke 14. It is tough to try and reason out what Jesus meant, what the purpose was behind his words, etc., and I think we often over step our bounds when we do so. One thing for sure the tone of the statement does fit nicely with similar tones Jesus had throughout the gospels. This statement makes us feel uncomfortable, it causes us to squirm, a little bit, and I think that was done intentionally. One of the biggest injustices I think we have done in our modern times is that we have cast and displayed Jesus as a mild person where everyone feels uncomfortable around. The Jesus in the gospels is much, much different. Jesus in the gospels challenges us, drives us to places where we feel uncomfortable, and that's done intentionally so we can grow and prosper.

  But, I want to leave you with thinking about the family. I don't think Jesus was telling us to hate our father and mother. However, I do think what Jesus was telling us is that nothing should come above serving Him and the Kingdom. Nothing. Period. It is so easy to get wrapped up in what we do as a family, as individuals, in our careers, and in ourselves, that we often lose sight of what's most important: nothing in our lives should be greater than Jesus. Now, I will say I do see the family as a huge blessing and a blessing that is a gift from God. I don't think that this gift should be taken lightly. I want you to be left with this: love your family, cherish your family, if the recent tornadoes in Oklahoma have taught us anything is that we aren't promised tomorrow so make the most of today. But, Jesus should always be at His rightful place in your life and that is at the very top. We have one more post on the family stay tuned.