2014 has been a crazy year I must say. Our world is filled with an amazing amount of brokenness, judgment, hurt, and bitterness. But, on the flip-side there are still many people in our society who seek to do good, love their neighbor, and live out their Christian faith on a daily basis. This post didn't come out as quickly as I would have liked, but I think the delay in the post allowed to really process and get to the root of this issue.
In case you haven't heard Los Angeles Clippers' owner Donald Sterling came under a lot of fire when the story broke that he asked his girlfriend not to bring African Americans to watch Clippers' basketball games. These comments created a MAJOR backlash against Sterling, and since then the NBA has fined him 2.5 million dollars and banned him from life. This is a very big story that touches on a deeper issue that is present in our American culture. Let's dive in here a little bit and prayerfully look at and see what we can learn together through this.
1) Recognize all the sin.
I will admit I am a saddened that we live in a culture where Mr. Sterling's comments and comments similar to his can garner a huge public outcry, but very few people have even bothered to mention that Mr. Sterling though married also has a girlfriend as well. Now, I don't want to dive into the nature of their relationship or speculate about it, but my thought is if you call someone your girlfriend that is more than just a casual business partner or acquaintance. I will say this, and I want everyone to understand and know that what he said was wrong and totally against Jesus' prayer in John 17 which states that his desire is human beings become united and not divided. My point is this, as Christians sin should outrage us, we shouldn't accept, make excuses for it, or try and get around. Our desire should be to eliminate it entirely. Mr. Sterling is a rich, flawed human being, who needs the grace and love of Jesus Christ just as much as the next person, and he is someone who we need to recognize and pray for both his views of minorities and at time his marital unfaithfulness.
2) All sin has the same eternal outcome.
In the days coming my hope is that people all over the world will look to live into solutions, forgiveness, and healing in terms of the race problem. There still is a major issue that permeates our country today, but I will say this issues of race are almost always a two way street, that is not always the case but it usually is. The deeper issue is that sin shouldn't be hierarchical in the mind of the Christian, but it often is.
Societal consequences to sin will be different. If I trip my brother when he's carry his lunch tray, then he'll get mad, I will get yelled at and disciplined, which is a fitting consequence for that action. However, if I decide to blow up a building that consequence will land me several years in a fairly high security prison, which is also a fairly fitting consequence for that sin. In God's eyes the difference is that all sin brings about the same result: separation from God. So, yes racism is a deep sin that a lot of folks struggle with today. But, racism, hatred, jealousy, gossip, lieing, etc. all bring about the same eternal consequence.
The question remains is racism a generational thing? Cultural thing? Family thing? I think those answers are different in many different circumstances, but my hope is that Christians young and old immediately began praying for the situation once it broke instead of quickly passing judgment on the issue.
3) Where do we go from here?
I don't really like or enjoy ideas, judgment, theology, etc that remain ambiguous. I like ideas and theology that are followed by action. I'm an action guy, and I think it's important for us to both live and talk about our faith. One big thing I hope everyone who reads this takes is that children are very much a product of their family. If parents and families live out hatred toward people, don't associate with those different from them, and teach their children these things then these kids will be adults who live this out and pass it on to their family. Make family development, deep conversations, family Bible study, and family mission opportunities a part of who your family is, the United States can be an incredible nation where all people are loved, cherished, and respected. But, if children live in households where this is not happening then they will grow up to be adults who practice the exact same thing.
Wednesday, April 30, 2014
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Deception #5 Truth is not Absolute
Life can be very tricky, filled with people who desire to take advantage of us and even at times cause us harm. But, one area where I hope we as the body of Christ are consistent is our definition of truth. Pilate asked Jesus during his trial a hauntingly convicting question, "What is truth?" (John 18:38) This question is one that can cause much debating, thought, and discussion truth is one of the main cornerstones that we as Christians need to wrap our minds around. Once we understand and faithfully live out the answer to what truth is and all about, then our lives are going to become powerful and dynamic beyond our wildest beliefs and imagination.
Let's dive in!
1) Truth cannot be separated from God.
This is one of the most fundamental characteristics of God. I would say it would fall into a close second behind God is love. But, truth is woven very deep into the fabric of God's existence. The Bible does an amazing job of capturing both the actions and the heart of God. It is a book written through the hands of men and women, but what it communicates is life-changing truth which is inspired by and centered in God Himself.
The lesson behind all of this is that truth outside and separate from God is often few and far between. I don't want to necessarily say that only the words of the Bible are true, because we have seen a lot of new and great things come our way in terms of technology, medicine, architecture, etc. But, what I do want to say that the blueprint for your life, the example we are called to follow is right in the words of the Bible. If a cause, action, deed, or even words appear separate from the nature and heart of God or contradict the words of the Bible then they more than likely need to be avoided. Now, I will say that are certain examples in the Bible that if we take them literally we could be in trouble. These are examples spoken in metaphor or simile terminology. If we cut off our hand every time we sinned then we would have a society of people who just have stumps at the ends of their arms. No one would have arms, it is in cases like these that we are called to use our good judgment which God has blessed us with and the wisdom of the Holy Spirit to guide us.
2) Moral truths are absolute and objective.
Not every statement is true and truth can be relative at times. Let me repeat that not every statement is true. I'm typing this up on a Tuesday, and if I write I typed this on a Friday that would be untrue. However, if I waited a few days and left that statement up there then it would be true that I typed it on a Friday. Certain truth statements do change for example, "Polio is an deadly, crippling disease." If you had said that 100 years ago, you would be 100% correct. But, thanks to gifts God blessed Jonas Salk with that statement is no longer true.
However, subjective truth cannot be applied to all areas of life. Especially in terms of morality there needs to be absolute truth. Because we live in a world where two things are true at the same time. 1) We live in a world that is filled with sin and brokenness. 2) Human beings can do some very bad but also very good things to each other.
The Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5 are the best, most clear and concise outlines of moral truths. Jesus took these Ten Commandments and condensed them further by saying that we should love God with all we have and love our neighbor as ourselves. Living out the Ten Commandments and Jesus' new commands in Matthew 22 is not always the easiest, most-fun way to live, but it will lead to worthwhile relationships, a life filled with good decisions, and it will be a life that honors God. There has to be universal moral truths, that people live by and live into if not then are society borders on the chaotic and sociopathic.
3) Truth can only lead to one end.
There is only one final reality. All of the philosophies, mind-sets, and belief systems that are proposed by many different people all over the world have a similar goal (a final destination that ends in happiness, glory/etc.) But, all destinations and goals are all called something different and all have a different route to get there. The Bible is clear in John 14 that Jesus is the only way to get Heaven, so the tough truth and pill to swallow from that is if John 14 is right, then every other claim is wrong.
Now, I will say this message is not popular by any means. People don't like to be told they're wrong, probably ever, but that is the reality of what we face as Christians. Now, before anyone begins to drop words like exclusive or strict, let me say that Christ is for everyone. No one is denied access to the father, but they have to come on Jesus' terms. Let me explain truth in terms of the law. We are in a society that if someone steals something the resulting consequence is almost legal action. There is no alternate consequence or action, if someone steals, murders, vandalizes, etc. legal action is taken. The same thing happens with beginning a relationship with Jesus one of the many intended consequences is having your final end being Heaven. We've all taken tests, and we know that for each question on the exam there is one answer. A statement can't be true or false, choices A, B, and C cannot all be correct. The same thing is true about our final end, we cannot all believe different things, live different lives, and end up in the same place. It doesn't happen and cannot happen. The truth of Christianity is for everyone.
4) Living a life that aligns with moral and scripture truths brings about blessing and hope.
This will be the shortest of all the four points. But, I've never met anyone in my 27 years of life who has said, "I regret living too much like Jesus." It is a difficult, fulfilling life but it's a life that will be filled with blessings and hope. I'm not always talking about physical blessing, but if every action has a consequence the logical jump behind living a life of goodness, honesty, and blessing is that all those things would follow you.
Let's dive in!
1) Truth cannot be separated from God.
This is one of the most fundamental characteristics of God. I would say it would fall into a close second behind God is love. But, truth is woven very deep into the fabric of God's existence. The Bible does an amazing job of capturing both the actions and the heart of God. It is a book written through the hands of men and women, but what it communicates is life-changing truth which is inspired by and centered in God Himself.
The lesson behind all of this is that truth outside and separate from God is often few and far between. I don't want to necessarily say that only the words of the Bible are true, because we have seen a lot of new and great things come our way in terms of technology, medicine, architecture, etc. But, what I do want to say that the blueprint for your life, the example we are called to follow is right in the words of the Bible. If a cause, action, deed, or even words appear separate from the nature and heart of God or contradict the words of the Bible then they more than likely need to be avoided. Now, I will say that are certain examples in the Bible that if we take them literally we could be in trouble. These are examples spoken in metaphor or simile terminology. If we cut off our hand every time we sinned then we would have a society of people who just have stumps at the ends of their arms. No one would have arms, it is in cases like these that we are called to use our good judgment which God has blessed us with and the wisdom of the Holy Spirit to guide us.
2) Moral truths are absolute and objective.
Not every statement is true and truth can be relative at times. Let me repeat that not every statement is true. I'm typing this up on a Tuesday, and if I write I typed this on a Friday that would be untrue. However, if I waited a few days and left that statement up there then it would be true that I typed it on a Friday. Certain truth statements do change for example, "Polio is an deadly, crippling disease." If you had said that 100 years ago, you would be 100% correct. But, thanks to gifts God blessed Jonas Salk with that statement is no longer true.
However, subjective truth cannot be applied to all areas of life. Especially in terms of morality there needs to be absolute truth. Because we live in a world where two things are true at the same time. 1) We live in a world that is filled with sin and brokenness. 2) Human beings can do some very bad but also very good things to each other.
The Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5 are the best, most clear and concise outlines of moral truths. Jesus took these Ten Commandments and condensed them further by saying that we should love God with all we have and love our neighbor as ourselves. Living out the Ten Commandments and Jesus' new commands in Matthew 22 is not always the easiest, most-fun way to live, but it will lead to worthwhile relationships, a life filled with good decisions, and it will be a life that honors God. There has to be universal moral truths, that people live by and live into if not then are society borders on the chaotic and sociopathic.
3) Truth can only lead to one end.
There is only one final reality. All of the philosophies, mind-sets, and belief systems that are proposed by many different people all over the world have a similar goal (a final destination that ends in happiness, glory/etc.) But, all destinations and goals are all called something different and all have a different route to get there. The Bible is clear in John 14 that Jesus is the only way to get Heaven, so the tough truth and pill to swallow from that is if John 14 is right, then every other claim is wrong.
Now, I will say this message is not popular by any means. People don't like to be told they're wrong, probably ever, but that is the reality of what we face as Christians. Now, before anyone begins to drop words like exclusive or strict, let me say that Christ is for everyone. No one is denied access to the father, but they have to come on Jesus' terms. Let me explain truth in terms of the law. We are in a society that if someone steals something the resulting consequence is almost legal action. There is no alternate consequence or action, if someone steals, murders, vandalizes, etc. legal action is taken. The same thing happens with beginning a relationship with Jesus one of the many intended consequences is having your final end being Heaven. We've all taken tests, and we know that for each question on the exam there is one answer. A statement can't be true or false, choices A, B, and C cannot all be correct. The same thing is true about our final end, we cannot all believe different things, live different lives, and end up in the same place. It doesn't happen and cannot happen. The truth of Christianity is for everyone.
4) Living a life that aligns with moral and scripture truths brings about blessing and hope.
This will be the shortest of all the four points. But, I've never met anyone in my 27 years of life who has said, "I regret living too much like Jesus." It is a difficult, fulfilling life but it's a life that will be filled with blessings and hope. I'm not always talking about physical blessing, but if every action has a consequence the logical jump behind living a life of goodness, honesty, and blessing is that all those things would follow you.
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Deception Number 4: Sticks and Stones will Break my Bones, but Words will Never Hurt Me
Let's face it words can hurt. They can hurt a lot, and one of the most damaging things we can do to another human being is discourage them. As a church, as followers of Jesus Christ, I hope our goal has been and will always be to build people up. The sad reality is that is not always the case, but our hope is together that we can continue to inspire and encourage all of us to speak and act in ways that build each other up rather than tear down. What I want and desire to leave you with today is some incredible truths about our speech and some things to think about when we communicate and converse with each other.
1) You don't need to have it all together all the time.
Our current society and even in our current churches we've become very private people. Our troubles, hurts, and struggles are often not discussed and when discussed can be met with hurtful words and emotions. I will say at the onset of this, this is not an easy thing to do, to be open, real, honest, genuine, and conceal hurt and pain involves taking some major risks. But, the question remains what is the upside? Why, be open and vulnerable when it can lead to heart ache?
Well, my thought process is this, can we really have meaningful, deep friendships and relationships with people if we only remain on the surface emotionally? If we really desire to live out our unconditional love for our friends and family shouldn't they know of our struggles and pain? Well, this is not easy to do, and some of you may even disagree but I believe that being open and real with each other and honest of our life situations will lead to very satisfying, deep relationships.
2) Think before you speak and you will eliminate a lot of hurtful things you say.
James 3:9-11 states, "9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring?" It is difficult to believe that our tongue can be used for such great purposes as praising God but also such negative things as cursing our neighbor? Let me be clear about all of this, as long as sin is still in our world, people will say nasty things about each other and to each other.
However, we can greatly improve our witness for Jesus to the world when we as Christians begin to honor each other with our speech. It won't be easy, because life brings at us people who just grate us on and try us to our last nerve, but if we are followers of Jesus we are called to love even those people. I want you to try something with me, the next time someone says or does something that would cause you to speak unkindly quietly count to three and see what happens. Most of our most hurt things that we have said have come impulsively. That three second delay will cause you to cool down and will allow you to see that more than likely what you were about to say probably wasn't worth it.
3) Speak to people's potential, gifts, and at times shortcomings.
I wouldn't be in full-time ministry today if it hadn't been for wise, mature Christians who pointed out gifts and abilities that I had that would allow me to become a ministry leader. God uses people all the time to communicate His truth to His creation. Be a part of that. Allow God to speak through you to others. But, do not take this task lightly. Make sure that you have been in prayer about what you're going to say and who you are going to say it to. God can and will use you to shape and mold other human beings. But, this doesn't and won't happen if you haven't first prayed for them and prayed for wisdom from God.
One final note, people don't like to be told of their shortcomings. It is not easy to tell someone that what they're doing or desiring to do doesn't match up with their gifts. The tough reality is that a lot of people do need to learn and be redirected to a path that better suits their gifts. So, if you are called to or see someone who needs redirecting, make sure you have a place to redirect them to pursue. Don't drop the bomb and not have a positive redirection that they can pursue.
We speak on average over 15,000 words a day. In 2014 let's make a promise to begin eliminating the hurtful, mean, and unkind things that we say to others or about others. Remember that Jesus died for everyone and loves everyone.
1) You don't need to have it all together all the time.
Our current society and even in our current churches we've become very private people. Our troubles, hurts, and struggles are often not discussed and when discussed can be met with hurtful words and emotions. I will say at the onset of this, this is not an easy thing to do, to be open, real, honest, genuine, and conceal hurt and pain involves taking some major risks. But, the question remains what is the upside? Why, be open and vulnerable when it can lead to heart ache?
Well, my thought process is this, can we really have meaningful, deep friendships and relationships with people if we only remain on the surface emotionally? If we really desire to live out our unconditional love for our friends and family shouldn't they know of our struggles and pain? Well, this is not easy to do, and some of you may even disagree but I believe that being open and real with each other and honest of our life situations will lead to very satisfying, deep relationships.
2) Think before you speak and you will eliminate a lot of hurtful things you say.
James 3:9-11 states, "9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring?" It is difficult to believe that our tongue can be used for such great purposes as praising God but also such negative things as cursing our neighbor? Let me be clear about all of this, as long as sin is still in our world, people will say nasty things about each other and to each other.
However, we can greatly improve our witness for Jesus to the world when we as Christians begin to honor each other with our speech. It won't be easy, because life brings at us people who just grate us on and try us to our last nerve, but if we are followers of Jesus we are called to love even those people. I want you to try something with me, the next time someone says or does something that would cause you to speak unkindly quietly count to three and see what happens. Most of our most hurt things that we have said have come impulsively. That three second delay will cause you to cool down and will allow you to see that more than likely what you were about to say probably wasn't worth it.
3) Speak to people's potential, gifts, and at times shortcomings.
I wouldn't be in full-time ministry today if it hadn't been for wise, mature Christians who pointed out gifts and abilities that I had that would allow me to become a ministry leader. God uses people all the time to communicate His truth to His creation. Be a part of that. Allow God to speak through you to others. But, do not take this task lightly. Make sure that you have been in prayer about what you're going to say and who you are going to say it to. God can and will use you to shape and mold other human beings. But, this doesn't and won't happen if you haven't first prayed for them and prayed for wisdom from God.
One final note, people don't like to be told of their shortcomings. It is not easy to tell someone that what they're doing or desiring to do doesn't match up with their gifts. The tough reality is that a lot of people do need to learn and be redirected to a path that better suits their gifts. So, if you are called to or see someone who needs redirecting, make sure you have a place to redirect them to pursue. Don't drop the bomb and not have a positive redirection that they can pursue.
We speak on average over 15,000 words a day. In 2014 let's make a promise to begin eliminating the hurtful, mean, and unkind things that we say to others or about others. Remember that Jesus died for everyone and loves everyone.
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